
Hello World!
I am currently in the process of getting married. We hired a premarital counselor and he recommended this book. If you are a man and literally don’t know how your woman thinks…YOU ARE IN LUCK. This book is written by Godly men for Godly men, striving for a better marriage. I believe this is intended for men in broken marriages, who strive for a better one. It’s harsh, but if you carefully study what is written in this book, your marriage WILL be better. As Godly Men, it is our responsibility to be the head of our household. That also includes, head of our marriage. I am a firm believer that when a marriage fails, the fault will always fall on the Husband. There may be exceptions, but as for my current understanding, I want the blame put on me if my marriage fails. But with God, we will never fail.
My hope for this series is to help men in a marriage or looking forward to getting married learn to get deeper in order to be the godly husband they were created to be. Of course, I recommend buying this book yourself. You really do not need this blog to help you. But I know some people don’t like reading, and just want the nitty griddy, so I will use this as an opportunity to summarize key takeaways from each chapter. Below will be my format.
Summary Statement: This will be a 2-3 sentence summary of the entire chapter.
Key Takeaways: This will highlight maybe 2-3 key takeaways from the chapter. I may list a total number of key takeaways from the chapter, to encourage people to purchase the book.
Key Q/As: This is optional, but I will list some of the key questions/problems they notice in men, as well as the answers. Depending on how the Spirit leads me during that time.
So thank you for accompanying me on this journey. If you are interested in purchasing this book, here is a LINK.
But if money is tight, you are in luck. I loved this book so much I purchased 2 extra copies, and I don’t know who to give it too. The first person to post on here can receive a copy of this book. Unfortunately this book is for men only, so I would ask that the first person be a man. Also for the women, who are following this. I will encourage you not to read these posts, as this mainly pertains to men. One thing I learned from reading this book is that God knew what he was doing when he created women. Men and Women are VERY DIFFERENT. And this is no more evident than what we see in the beginning. Just observe how God treats Adam, and how God treats Eve. Look at the wording God uses. Look at how Satan works on Eve, but not on Adam. Look at how Adam and Eve reacted to God calling them out. So, this is meant for Men, so I encourage you to check out other posts.
Regardless, Thanks for reading and enjoy.
With Love,
Ayodeji Alaketu
Not a man, but this statement stood out to me:
“I am a firm believer that when a marriage fails, the fault will always fall on the Husband. There may be exceptions, but as for my current understanding, I want the blame put on me if my marriage fails.”
It’s very selfless and I’ve never heard a man say anything like that lol. But I love it and it’s an interesting perspective.
Thanks for the reply! I actually decided to not complete this series, but I do feel that man needs to take more ownership in their marriages. Like I said, I’m sure there are exceptions, but I want to do my best to protect my marriage, and if it fails, I just wasn’t strong enough.